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Your Budding Daughter: Some Practical Suggestions for Parents


Author:

Jennifer Johnson, MD, MS

University of California, Irvine

Medically Reviewed On: March 31, 2006

What? Already?

Puberty! It started happening to my 10-year-old daughter this spring. She needed new sandals – women’s size 7 sandals! She got those little bumps under her nipples that we doctors call ‘breast buds’.  Next, I was ‘excused’ from joining her in the dressing room when we shopped for her clothes, and the bathroom door was locked when she showered. The pants I hemmed up in June were too short by October, despite only being washed once. And she admits to ‘maybe’ having a few hairs ‘down there’.

As a loving mom and adolescent medicine specialist, these are heady times for me. I am proud of my daughter and thrilled to see her embark on this road toward womanhood. I know that she is progressing normally. But still I think, ‘Hold on, she’s only in fifth grade!’

My daughter is perfectly normal. Puberty, often first recognized at the onset of breast development, usually begins about the time a girl turns 10. There is a wide range of ‘normal’ starting times, and the onset time varies in different ethnic groups. For instance, it may occur between the ages of 8 and 14 in white girls, and may begin as early as 7 years of age in African American girls.

Puberty in Girls, Step by Step

Puberty is outwardly manifested by two main sets of changes:

  • Rapid increases in height and weight, referred to as the Height and weight spurts
  • Development of breasts, and pubic and axillary (underarm) hair
Tracking the changes during puberty
These changes, and the other physical changes of puberty, occur in a predictable sequence. We use sexual maturity rating (SMR) scales to track a youngster’s progression through puberty. Knowing the timing of these changes, related to each other and related to the sexual maturity ratings, is very helpful. After all, most of us like to know what to expect. For example, when my daughter developed breast buds, I was able to tell her that she’d start finding little hairs near her labia majora (outer lips of the vagina) within six months or so. And she knows that she is likely to have her first menstrual period about 2 years after her breasts first started developing. This means she’ll be a little over 12 years of age, close to the national average of 12 years and 4 months.

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